Patricia Sue "Pat" Bayer
May 26, 1948  -  August 18, 2017

Patricia Sue "Pat" Bayer

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Grace Memorial Chapel
2016 N. 14th
Ponca City, OK  74601
Tuesday, August 22, 2017
2:00 p.m.
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Patricia Sue Bayer, 69, of Ponca City, OK, passed away on August 18, 2017. She was born on May 26, 1948 to Frederick Andrew Brockert and Esther K. Cornelsen Brockert in Fowler, Kansas. The family moved to Ensign, Kansas when Patricia was in the first grade. They moved to Dodge City where she attended school through third grade. Then later moved to Garden City, Ks where she attended school from fourth grade until she graduated in 1966 from Garden City High School.
She met the love of her life, Don Bayer, in Garden City and they were united in marriage on January 14, 1967. They were married for 50 years and 8 months. The Bayers moved to Ponca City, OK in 1979. Patricia worked as a clerk at Central Office Supply for about eight years. She then worked for the Ponca City Hospital for 20 years where she retired.
She was preceded in death by her father, Fred Brockert in 1995.
She is survived by her husband, Don of the home; Daughter Denice (Travis) Kolb of Edmond; son Troy of Ponca City; and her mother Esther Brockert also of Ponca City.
A funeral service will be held at Grace Memorial Chapel on Tuesday, August 22nd at 2:00 in the afternoon. A viewing will be from 10 a.m. until 2 p.m. before the service.
Patricia loved peonies. Flowers may be sent to the funeral home.

To the living I am gone.
To the sorrowful, I will never return.
To the angry, I was cheated.

But to the happy, I am at peace.
And to the faithful, I have never left.

I cannot speak, but I can listen.
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.

So, as you stand upon a shore,
gazing at a beautiful sea
remember me.

As you look in awe at a mighty forest
and its grand majesty
remember me.

Remember me in your heart,
your thoughts and your memories
of the times we cried,
the times we fought,
the times we laughed

For if you always think of me,
I will never be gone from your side.

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  1. Peg and Kenny Anderson
    Ponca City, OK

    Time to tell my best friend goodbye. We had so much laughter when all 4 of us were together.. I will cherish all the times we had together. Our prayers to your family.

  2. Delinda Dunagan
    Scott City,, KS

    Donald - Keeping you, Denise, & Troy in our prayers today and in the days ahead. May you find comfort in all your happy memories.
    Delinda & Thurman

  3. Connie Force

    To the Bayer family, sorry for tbe loss of our wonderful cousin Pat, she will be missed by all of us. She is a wonderful woman. We all love you so much. This is also Phil, Doug, and Bobby. May God be with you always. Rest in Peace our dear counsin.

  4. George & Karen Deslongchamp
    Norman, OK

    We are so sad to hear of Pat's death and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers for peace during this difficult time. We have wonderful memories of our fun times together.
    George and Karen

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