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Brenda Kay Wilson

November 8, 1954 — August 31, 2023

Ponca City, OK

The family of Brenda Kay Wilson of Ponca City, OK, is saddened to announce her passing on August 31, 2023. Brenda was born on November 8, 1954 in Quantico, Virginia and lived most of her life in Ponca City where she raised her 4 children.

She loved to travel with her family and spend time with her children and grandchildren. She also loved to cook and collect dishware. She had a true passion and talent for all crafts and quilting.

Brenda is survived by three sons: Damon and wife Christy Dodge of Shawnee, KS; Shane and wife Amanda Martel of Ponca City, OK; Brent and wife April of Lenexa, KS; and one daughter, Sandy and husband Randall Baker of Ponca City, OK. 10 grandkids: Andrew and Abby Dodge, Drake, Jorja and Peyton Martel, Lane, Alyssa and Zak Vaillancourt and Madison and Ryleigh Greenwell. Longtime partner Estle Lampe and 6 siblings: Linda and husband Carl Graube, Cinda and husband Mike Hatfield, Lisa and husband Michael McDonald, Sandy and husband Todd Haltom, Gina Lepore, Trey Lepore, and 13 nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her father, Raymond Martel and mother, Edna M. Wilson, granddaughter, Reagan Vaillancourt and nephew, Matthew Haltom, Jr.

The family is comforted knowing Brenda is at peace with our Lord.

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